I get the curiosity, but there's got to be some pacing. My family surprisingly restrained themselves from asking you a billion questions, but they didn't quite spare me. Klaus and Vanya get that I need space with answering questions, everyone else can get overbearing about it.
[ He explains, because he just doesn't want to feel like he's being boxed in. Even if they all have the best intentions. ]
Not really, is there anything you want me to know about them?
[ He sighs at that question because it is complicated to explain...at least in his mind. ]
Look at it this way. We grew up being divided and pitted against each other on a constant basis. It leaves a lot of hard feelings that haven't all been entirely squashed because we are talking years of issues here. Diego already has abandonment issues when it comes to me. Not being invited to my girlfriend's house warming party is just going to be seen as being excluded whether we have a good reason for it or not.
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Date: 2021-10-19 04:56 am (UTC)[ He explains, because he just doesn't want to feel like he's being boxed in. Even if they all have the best intentions. ]
Not really, is there anything you want me to know about them?
[ He sighs at that question because it is complicated to explain...at least in his mind. ]
Look at it this way. We grew up being divided and pitted against each other on a constant basis. It leaves a lot of hard feelings that haven't all been entirely squashed because we are talking years of issues here. Diego already has abandonment issues when it comes to me. Not being invited to my girlfriend's house warming party is just going to be seen as being excluded whether we have a good reason for it or not.